August 15, 2007
Let me preface what I am about to say with this: What happened to Danny Dahlquist is absolutely terrible. I extend my most sincere condolences to his family, friends, and classmates in a time when they must all be in indescribable shock and mourning.
Bill Dennis seems to think that only the rich kids get to screw around and do dumb stuff at college. I can personally attest to the inaccuracy of this statement. When we engaged in what was, looking back, absolutely retarded and reckless behavior at my university, all walks of life were present and accounted for. I don’t know anyone that didn’t do something absolutely moronic at some point while they were in college. I can imagine three of my friends doing the exact same thing the Bradley students did to Danny.
These three young men must feel like the most horrible, disgusting animals on the face of the earth. The remorse in their soul is something I can’t even begin to imagine.This being said, I don’t feel that charging them with capital murder is appropriate, or even second degree. Manslaughter is a far more appropriate charge for the circumstances.
Their lives are already ruined. They will certainly be expelled from Bradley, and will probably serve some jail time. While they will have the opportunity to gain certain certifications while incarcerated, they will NEVER be admitted to any major university again, public or private. I can say this with relative certainty, as a good friend of mine, who was a genius and had never been in trouble in his life, served five years for a few felonies. He did get some sort of certification for IT work while in prison, but long ago set aside any hopes of a college degree.
I’ve heard a few people draw comparisons between this incident and the young man that dropped the concrete block off of the I-74 overpass. This is completely unfair, and race has NOTHING to do with it. It has to do with malice and intent. I can see myself (as I’m sure many of you can), standing outside the bedroom door with a Roman candle, giggling like a little girl. I might have second thoughts, because I know how hot those things get, and any contact with a mattress or carpeting could be disastrous. I also understand that not everyone has the large sphere of seemingly trivial knowledge that I do. When the boy dropped the concrete from the overpass, he saw the car coming, and there was no possible result other than catastrophe. While there was a chance of disaster at the house on Laura Ave., it was not inevitable, and certainly not the objective, as it was with the concrete.
While I, along with the rest of the community, am completely outraged and disgusted by the crime, cooler heads need to prevail. In this case, I think a little leniency, a manslaughter charge, and 5-10 with time off for good behavior are the right steps to take. I know many of you will disagree vehemently, and I welcome your comments.
I know that what I’ve said here might be misconstrued, so if you have a question of what I intend to say, PLEASE ask. As I said before, I in NO WAY want to mitigate the terrible tragedy of a young man losing his life in this way. I do feel that there are circumstances surrounding the incident that need to be taken into account before these three young men are strung from a tree limb by a torch-carrying mob.
August 15th, 2007 at 1:00 pm
Exactly. Thank You.
August 15th, 2007 at 1:33 pm
While listening to the radio yesterday I heard a gentleman call in and compare what these three did to pouring gasoline on the floor and lighting it. I thought that was preposterous. They definitely did not intentionally light their best friends bedroom on fire with the intention of killing him. They were intoxicated and did something moronic, but had they been behind the wheel of a car and had the same results, they would be doing some time too. I’m not a judge though. Let them decide.
I went to high school with one of the guys and I know that he was a good kid.
That is all.
August 15th, 2007 at 4:05 pm
I couldn’t have said it better myself.
August 16th, 2007 at 5:49 am
What makes you think the concrete block was inevitable? The block could have hit many other locations on the vehicle, or nearly missed it startling the driver causing her to swerve. It was a brick, not a slab of concrete like what fell in the tunnels of Boston. It just so happens the 15 year old struck a bullseye (on his one and only try) and not only hit the car, but hit the driver as well. That isn’t inevitable, that is tragic luck.
I had a sister nearly killed by a similar stunt. Some kid tossed a jar of pickles, off a bridge and struck the hood of her car. It missed her by a couple feet and would surely have killed her had it done so. The impact of the pickle jar totalled her car.
Is a jar of pickles any less dangerous than a brick? Having seen the damage, apparently not. I have a hard time believing that the jar tosser was thinking about killing my sister. More likely the tosser was thinking about how ‘cool’ the impact of pickles would be, wherever it struck. There is nothing inevitable about what occurred, just stupidity.
August 16th, 2007 at 7:55 am
This is such a difficult topic for me. I guess once you have kids, every situation like this you imagine your child in…
I’m amazed at the grace that Danny’s parents have shown. I think I wouldn’t handle it nearly as well and would want them to pay, would want revenge, out of anger and grief. Luckily the Dahlquist’s are bigger people.
I can also put myself in the position of the parents of the perpetrators. If my son did such a thing he would be devastated, and while his life would go on, it would never be the same and I can’t imagine having to carry that burden, the burden of responsibility for your friend’s death, for the rest of your life. It really is tragic.
August 16th, 2007 at 9:16 am
Good article.
August 16th, 2007 at 11:38 am
Mahkno,
Didn’t the brick get dropped on that car in the middle of the night? I74 is not so busy that a randomly dropped brick could “just happen” to hit a car. The kid was aiming.
August 16th, 2007 at 12:03 pm
Aiming for the car or the person inside it? or perhaps aiming near the car? Why is it not plausible that he just threw the brick over to throw it over without regard to a car being there or not. Depending on which side of the bridge and road he was on, he might not even have known a car was coming. Reasonable doubt.
Obviously you and much of the public at large seem to have some special insight as to the young man’s intent. Please share.
The lynch-mob mindset of the one situation versus the apologetic-they-are-good-kids mindset of the other is stark and impossible to ignore.
August 16th, 2007 at 12:22 pm
Cars don’t just “happen” to be driving by that part of I74 at 2 in the morning. I can say this with some certainty, because I have driven down that stretch of I74 many, many times, very late at night. It’s pretty empty.
This is not a good kid, bad kid issue, or a rich kid, poor kid issue, and it’s not a black kid, white kid issue. It’s a malice issue. It’s an intent to harm issue. It’s three dumb college kids that did something really, really stupid, sort of mean, and frankly, something that happens in just about every college dorm in the country, compared to one emotionally unstable teenager who did something really, really mean with the intent to seriously harm someone.
Another point: Even if he DIDN’T hit a car with the brick, it would’ve created either a huge hazard or a lot of smaller hazards in the road. Have you ever run over a piece of concrete? It’s not a good time.
August 16th, 2007 at 3:58 pm
Completely agree!
August 18th, 2007 at 8:50 pm
It was not a brick; it was a paver – these things are like eighteen inches long, a foot wide and about two inches thick.
August 19th, 2007 at 10:10 pm
My take?
Well I can only say as a veteran of the trenches of waitress-dom in a very very Bradley oriented local downtown pub for two years when I was much younger I can only say this: Whether the pranksters were rich, working class, or otherwise this should be a lesson to Peoria to wise up to the antics of our local students of Bradley University. My experience showed me exactly how these kids behave on a daily basis, and it ain’t pretty, kids. Let me give you some examples: One Saturday evening a group of Chi-Omega sorority girls came in with their “sister” who happened to be turning 21 that evening. In the course of the 2 hours, this newly 21 year old had been literally “force-fed” 21 shots of the likes of “3 Wise Men, “Gorilla Farts, and “Mind Erasers.” while her “sisters” laughed at her pissing on herself, and falling over the bannister. An hour later…I found said girl in the restroom passed out in her vomit, with definite alchohol poisioning…while her “sisters” were humping the “Sig Ep” guys on the dance floor. When I saw her- I stormed out of the bathroom knowing what the girls had done from observation all evening, and confronted them. They were made then to get their “sister” home safely, and yelled at for being so stupid and careless. So, rather than all the girls climbing in a cab and taking care of her, they stuck her in a cab, and gave the cabbie the address to her house. They left her alone so they could continue their drunkenenss. I was so upset by this, I begged my mamager to kick them out or call the cops, or ANYTHING. My manager simply looked at me blankly and said “What ya gonna do…the Bradley kids pay the bills…”
Or the time that one of our Bradley based bartenders spent the evening at another local college bar uptown and drank 21 draft beers in an hour to win a T-shirt, left the bar, and promptly went on to collide head on into a 3rd shift nurse, and new mother on her way to work, and kill her. He got a slap on the wrist…6 months probation, and 100 hours of community service…while her family was completely devastated. His parents were from Hoffman Estates, a wealthy Chicago suburb, like most of Bradley’s enrollment.
My experience lead me to frustration with Peoria’s tolerance of the “Chicago Invasion” as I like to call them. Keep in mind that this is only two stories that I have shared with you tonight, and I could go on for hours, literally about the atrocities I encountered while at work in that place. I saw things that to this day leave me with a feeling of disdain for most of the Bradley crowd. Yes, I realize that not all Bradley students are the same, but the majority I have come across are irresponsible, undisiplined, spolied, and lacking in normal social skills. I think what happened to that child is horrible, and unspeakable…but quite frankly…it doesn’t surprise me one bit. When will Peoria quit enabling these kids, and start cracking down on Bradley’s head turning behavior? This tragedy truly makes me ill, but perhaps this could be the turning point for actually making these kids follow the rules FOR ONCE. Do I think that these kids need captial murder charges? I would have to agree with you C, that NO they do not, the manslaughter charge will suffice.
I can only hope that this will wake the powers that be up from their slumber and see now that enough is ENOUGH!!!!
Pissed OFF-
Jaded
August 20th, 2007 at 3:15 pm
Lumping a student population in the thousands into one massive stereotype is rather unfair, don’t you think? Is that any different than saying everyone in the South End smokes crack, or everyone in Morton is snobby?
August 20th, 2007 at 10:05 pm
“Yes, I realize that not all Bradley students are the same, but the majority I have come across are irresponsible, undisiplined, spolied, and lacking in normal social skills…”
I did say that they aren’t all that way, but a large portion of them are…
I would hate to lump them all into one group, but from what I have seen personally, it’s very hard not to have loathing of the many (not ALL) bad seeds that are growing at that university.
-Jaded
And, I usually buy my crack down on Madison, or Perry…thats the North Side, I believe. (Kidding kidding) ;o)
-Jaded
August 23rd, 2007 at 5:32 pm
I think it’s very unfair the way people portray Bradley students. Both me and my roomate go to Bradley and we are not completely insane or spoiled. My roomate has a full-time job at Caterpillar and I go full-time at Bradley. We aren’t going around throwing bricks or shooting fireworks underneath one-anothers door. It’s something bad that happened and people need to leave these boys the f#%k alone.
August 24th, 2007 at 11:49 am
B-
I don’t put you into that group, obviously. You are one of the exceptions. As I am sure there are many more like you, I am only speaking about the kids who take advantage of the leniency that Bradley and the City of Peoria have shown them. I feel horrible about this tragedy, and I grieve for ALL the parents involved. As a parent myself, I worry that one day, could this be MY child? Will I have given him the knowledge to make the right decisions in life? Sadly, I will never know until he is put to task. I can only hope and pray until that day comes. Bradley has had this problem for years, not just as of recent. They let the students run amok, and do as they will, for fear of cracking down sends them back home and mom and dads money right along with them. Enrollment means dollars, and Bradley has a LOT of those…for a reason. I just meant that it’s time to start keeping a closer eye on Bradley’s behavior policies, and actually enforcing them. I know, realisitcally…you cant be everywhere at once, and you cannot possibly babysit every student everyday. But maybe this tragedy, combined with a crack down will put SOME NOT ALL of these students back into their desks, and NOT their barstools.
AGAIN: I DO NOT believe that every Bradley student behaves the same, I have seen how SOME do, and that this behavior needs to end. How many students need to die before we open our eyes and realize that again… ENOUGH IS ENOUGH????
I think you are a cool guy B, and I apologoze if this comment offended you in any way. I’m just sick of hearing stories like this, something tragic, seemingly every damn year.
Nuff said-
Jaded
August 24th, 2007 at 2:56 pm
T-
It’s not just Bradley. College kids will be college kids. As I said, I could certainly see the same thing happening at any university, no matter what size. You can’t be everywhere at once, and you can’t rule colleges with an iron fist. Unlike high schools, college adminstrators are dealing with people who actually have RIGHTS. Now, the debate as to the balance of rights and responsibilities is one for another place and time. I’m just sayin’, college is what it is, and 18-23 year olds do dumb shit.